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Global Roundup: China's Road-tripping Auntie, Motorbike Lessons for Pakistani Women, Remembering Andrée Blouin, The Combahee River Collective, Morocco's Sheikhas
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Global Roundup: China's Road-tripping Auntie, Motorbike Lessons for Pakistani Women, Remembering Andrée Blouin, The Combahee River Collective, Morocco's Sheikhas

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Sixty-year-old Chinese grandmother Su Min had no intention of becoming a feminist icon. She was only trying to escape her abusive husband when she hit the road in 2020 in her white Volkswagen hatchback with a rooftop tent and her pension.

I felt like I could finally catch my breath. I felt like I could survive and find a way of life that I wanted. -Su Min

Over the next four years and 180,000 miles, the video diaries she shared of her adventures, while detailing decades of pain, earned her millions of cheerleaders online. They called her the "road-tripping auntie" as she inadvertently turned into a hero for women who felt trapped in their own lives.

Her story is now a hit film that was released in September - Like a Rolling Stone – and she made it to the BBC's list of 100 inspiring and influential women of 2024.

It was a year of big moments, but if she had to describe what 2024 meant to her in a single word, she says that word would be "freedom".

As soon as Su Min started driving, she felt freer, she told the BBC. But it wasn't until 2024, when she finally filed for divorce, that she experienced "another kind of freedom".

It took a while to get there: it's a complicated process in China and her husband refused to divorce her until she agreed to pay him. They settled on 160,000 yuan ($21,900; £17,400) but she is still waiting for the divorce certificate to come through.

For years Su Min had been the dutiful daughter, wife and mother – even as her husband repeatedly struck her.

I was a traditional woman and I wanted to stay in my marriage for life. But eventually I saw that I got nothing in return for all my energy and effort – only beatings, violence, emotional abuse and gaslighting. -Su Min

Su Min married Du Zhoucheng "really to avoid my father's control, and to avoid the whole family".

We are always so afraid of being ridiculed and blamed if we divorce, so we all choose to endure, but in fact, this kind of patience is not right. I later learned that, in fact, it can have a considerable impact on children. The child really doesn't want you to endure, they want you to stand up bravely and give them a harmonious home. -Su Min

The spark of inspiration for her escape came in 2019 while flicking through social media. She found a video about someone travelling while living in their van. This was it, she thought to herself. This was her way out.

To her millions of followers, Su Min offers comfort and hope.

We women are not just someone's wife or mother… Let's live for ourselves!. -a follower of Su Men

When I turn 60, I hope I can be as free as you. -another follower

Su Min keeps planning more trips and hopes to one day travel abroad.

She's worried about overcoming language barriers, but is confident her story will resonate around the world - as it has in China.

Although women in every country are different, I would like to say that no matter what environment you are in, you must be good to yourself. Learn to love yourself, because only when you love yourself can the world be full of sunshine. -Su Min

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